Sunday, September 28, 2025

2025, September 22-28

Mike spent time in California making funeral preparations with family, and Hallie held things together in Springville. 

Mom Owens was always a larger than life figure in Mike's life because she was a world traveler as part of her job. Here she is in a DC-10 jet engine in Fiji some 45 years ago. C'mon! Did your mom do anything like that? 


Chosen by Fergus. 

E had the chance to get some ice cream as we transition out of summer and into the fall. Eliza has always been fond of non dairy varieties. Peach at Rockwell was very yummy!


Lorraine (Alie's riding coach) made time to get Alie in for an extra ride this week when she had the day off from school. 



Mike had to sneak in a pic of Papa giving Bentley a nuzzle. Grandma would have enjoyed the visit with Lorraine. 


Mike's family has had a wonderful outpouring of support from extended family and friends, for which they are extremely grateful. Several people have brought or sent food items and meals. 


Even so, on the way back from picking Alie up from school on Wednesday, they splurged on pastrami dips and French fries from The Hat. 


Another day, another Duolingo milestone for Mike. 


Landon had the chance to visit with members of his birth family, some of whom are visiting, and some who live here. These ladies he had never met before are from his birth fathers side. Landon did not mind how much they loved him. Our feelings have always been "the more, the merrier."





Kai came back to our house. He loves to be reunited with his favorite toys.


Landon has a certain ambivalence about Fergus making biscuits on or near Landon's tenders. 


Eliza appreciates having a warm cat belly when she's outside. Eliza's bike has a flat tire, so she has been sticking closer to home. 


As part of his walk down Amnesia Lane, Mike is uncovering ancient artifacts of his childhood, such as this reindeer trivet he made in fourth grade with melted crayons on tile. Some kids from his class discovered too late that hot pots on said trivets would melt their deer. 


Here's a couple of pics of young Mike. What a funny little kid. Hallie has never seen these pictures, and she loves seeing them.



The city was replacing sidewalks across from Mike's parents' house. He did what had to be done. Of course, the city later came back not too long later and undid the memorial. 


Mike's dad had a couple of dentist appointments this week. While Mike waited, he saw some residents of the apartment complex next to the dentist office exhibiting some real People of Walmart energy while on a much-needed call with Hallie. We're not getting a lot of us time this week, even less than we have been getting since the move to Missoula. 


He saw these giant lawn sculptures at Lowe's and thought they were amusing. 


On Friday, BUH had its rodeo. Eliza performed well and had a good time. She received two blue ribbons (1st place).






Eliza even showed off some roping skills she has been learning.





On Saturday, Alie had her regular lesson with Lorraine, this time riding her usual mount, Noah. 



Meanwhile, Eliza and Hallie attended a horse auction. They did not buy a pony. Eliza has seen auctions before on YouTube, and it was great to be able to attend one in person. Eliza really took a liking to #58, and you can see she was checking her out.
 



She got some quality time with Ferg on Sunday. 


Hallie reported that a few sat outside Sunday night for The Gathering, but it was too windy to have s'mores. It was nice to have a chat before it got too cold and it was time to go in.

Sunday, September 21, 2025

2025 September 15 - 21

 

This last week didn't go exactly as planned.

On Monday, Hallie was able to work a shift at Starbucks when a fellow barista called in sick. Prepping for that meant Landon drove Eliza and Hallie to Summit so he knew how to get there. Picking Eliza up at the end of the day meant this would be Landon's first time driving to Provo by himself. Everything seemed to go off without a hitch. Hallie may be able to pick up another shift here and there. As you can see, Kai enjoyed his time in the car too.




Mike received this fortune cookie at lunch. Who knew this would be an omen for the rest of the week.


On Hallie's walk home from Starbucks she saw this snake. It didn't move when she walked by. Eliza said it was probably dead. Hallie thought it was still interesting to see, so a picture was taken.


After taekwondo in the evening Hallie and Eliza had to stop by the store and they saw this great sunset. Beautiful sunsets never get old.



Mike had the opportunity to visit several school districts in other parts of the state of Montana on Tuesday and Wednesday this week. 
When he wasn't visiting new superintendents and principals, he visited the Paris Gibson Square Art Museum. Mike didn't know it at the time, but Hallie did a little digging, and it is supposed to be haunted. Eliza and Hallie would have had a lot of fun there.







Mike liked that Scheels had a statue of George Washington out front.


Kai is loving his bunny, and it always melts Hallie's heart. Kai has been a true blessing in our lives as we really truly have struggled. 


Wednesday Eliza and Hallie met with a new psychaitrist for Eliza. The doctor was very through, and we hope for great things.

Here is a LEGO double decker Mike saw at a public library in Choteau, Montana. He thought it was a fun set to see in person.



Landon has really enjoyed learning the electric guitar. Fergus thought he should see what was happening. Fergus can be so funny at times. Everyone in the family is so accommodating to him.



Brooklyn has begun to smile. It brings Halllie so much joy when Brooklyn smiles for her and turns her head towards Hallie when she hears her voice. 

On Thursday, Hallie and Landon went to a meeting with Landon's school counselor. Seniors have an optional appointment called College and Career Readiness. Not a lot was figured out in the meeting nor did anything really need to be figured out. 

After the appointment Hallie went to Big O Tires to see why the car said there was low tire pressure. While waiting to see what the outcome was, Alicia texted to say she and Brooklyn were going to our house to take something over. Hallie thought it might be a fun treat. When Hallie got home she realized it was way better than a fun treat. Alicia was doing our dishes! What a true gift it is to have friends. In the last month, life has been so hard and Alicia lifted Hallie's burden. Thank you!


Shortly after Alicia left, Hallie received a phone call from Mike telling her that his mom had passed away. This news came as a shock to all of us. Sue is loved by all of us, and we will miss her terribly! Grief is a terrible master. Sue sent us great cards for all of the holidays, sometimes on behalf of our animals. Sue was great about talking to us each Sunday. Sue loved old TV shows. Sue loved her family, and we love her in return. As of this writing we don't know the details for the funeral.


As Mike was having to share this news with Hallie, Hallie was getting ready for our first family therapy appointment. As Hallie sat down in Courtney's office (she is Eliza's therapist and the family's therapist) Hallie saw this sign. Later in the day Hallie read it to Mike and was barely able to get through the words. Hallie struggles with a lot of these things, and they hit very close to home.


It may seem silly sometimes, but the extra step that Hallie's friends at Starbucks give to Hallie's drink really brings a simple joy to her heart when she is sad or having a hard time. 


We decided to have Mike rent a car in Missoula and drive to Utah on Friday. He made it by 8:30 p.m. Mike's coworkers have been so gracious to him. Fergus was more than happy to see his Mike. 



On Saturday, Mike took one of the family cars and headed to California. He made it safe and sound. We are grateful he can be there for his dad and sisters during this time.

Hallie found out that another Smith's employee, Dallas, works on cars. Landon's car needed new brakes, so Landon's car now has new brakes for a very reasonable price. Dallas had two motorcycles on his property. He got the keys for one of them so Landon could start it up. Landon was very happy with that experience.



On Sunday, Kai came back. The picture is a little blurry because Kai would not sit still for a selfie. The kids did laundry and tried to clean their rooms in preparation for the upcoming week and a trip to California.


Mike took some time Saturday evening and Sunday to take stock of the situation, mourn with family, and gear up for the week ahead. This bunny happened to be hanging out at his parents’ house, so he took a picture.